Caring, Listening, Sharing, and Healing

The loss of a loved one is very difficult for children and young people. Death, separation and divorce changes the shape of a family. Whatever the reason the impact on a child or young person can be tough, as they struggle to come to terms with what has happened.

The Children’s Grief Centre is here to walk the journey with your child. We provide support, care and an open ear to hear their story. We do not charge a fee for our service.

Why We're Needed

In 2011, it was estimated that in Ireland there were 3,360 16 year olds who had experienced the death of one or both parents. A similar number had experienced the death of a sibling (Irish Hospice Foundation, 2012). More recently, according to the Growing Up in Ireland Study, a Government-funded study of children being carried out jointly by the ESRI and Trinity College Dublin:

“Over one-third of 9-year-olds had experienced the death of a close family member (not including a parent) since the age of 5.”

 

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9-year-olds who had experienced several stressful life events in the previous four years were more likely to be at risk of socio-emotional and behavioural problems.

 

 

Experiences of loss and bereavement are all too common among children and young people in Ireland today. The loss of a parent either through death or separation is one of the most profound a child can face. It fundamentally changes the core of a child’s existence (Worden, 1996).

Our Mission

The mission of the Children’s Grief Centre is to provide support for school aged children and young people affected by loss through death, separation or divorce. We offer a safe and supportive place for children, young people and their families who are grieving. The service is provided by trained and experienced people.

Our Aim

Children are given the opportunity to look at feelings associated with loss and learn that they are not alone. We aim to help children overcome obstacles that prevent them from leading full lives. In addition, the Children’s Grief Centre strives to educate the community that grieving is an important part of life and is essential to an individual’s ongoing growth and development.

Our Values

Caring: Through listening – we give children a space to talk, share, ask questions and explore their emotions

Safety: We offer a safe place that helps children feel calm, secure and welcomed.

Non-judgemental: Our role is never to judge, sway opinion or arbitrate between parents.

Acceptance: We work with children across all backgrounds, cultures, and religions.

Teamwork: We have a team of professionals with a combination of skills and qualifications.

Our Story

The Children’s Grief Centre was founded in 2009 by, Sister Helen Culhane, together with a support group of professionals. As a Sister of Mercy. a qualified social worker and psychotherapist, Helen worked with people who were struggling with issues relating to death, bereavement and palliative care. This included time spent at Milford Care Centre.

Helen’s experience meant she developed a clear understanding of the needs of children and young people who were experiencing loss. She recognised that there was a lack of services and support for children and young people who were affected by the death of a loved one. Helen also saw there was an increasing need for support of children and young people who suffer loss due to separation or divorce of parents.

Helen’s vision was that the Centre would provide children and young people with a listening ear.

The Centre is well established within the Mid-West region, serving counties Clare, Tipperary,  Limerick and further afield. We have a team of trained Support Workers with experience in a diverse range of specialist fields including education, nursing, social work and psychotherapy.